Final Thoughts on Why Taking Revenge on an Ex Is A Bad Plan
Anger and bitterness over a lost love will contaminate your life, while the person who hurt you will sail into the sunset without care. Forgiveness will free you of the ties that bind, and forgiving them is not about them at all; it’s all about you. This doesn’t mean you have to let them back into your life, but you’re doing this to make you a better person.
Count this betrayal as a lesson learned, and you should strive to do better in your next relationship. Learn to identify red flags of problems and get out before things accelerate to the boiling point. In most cases, you might not have seen the breakup or hurtful situation coming. Some lessons life teaches are hard.
Sure, you want to get revenge because you feel it will make you feel better. Sadly, it’s a bandage that will soon fall off, and the gaping wound in your heart will still exist. Cry if you need to, talk to a friend to fill the void, but don’t get revenge. It’s just not worth it.
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